Friday, September 9, 2016

The Frankness of Fellowship...

Then David fled from Naioth in Ramah and came and said before Jonathan, “What have I done? What is my guilt? And what is my sin before your father, that he seeks my life?” And he said to him, “Far from it! You shall not die. Behold, my father does nothing either great or small without disclosing it to me. And why should my father hide this from me? It is not so.” But David vowed again, saying, “Your father knows well that I have found favor in your eyes, and he thinks, ‘Do not let Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved.’ But truly, as the LORD lives and as your soul lives, there is but a step between me and death.” Then Jonathan said to David, “Whatever you say, I will do for you.” David said to Jonathan, “Behold, tomorrow is the new moon, and I should not fail to sit at table with the king. But let me go, that I may hide myself in the field till the third day at evening. If your father misses me at all, then say, ‘David earnestly asked leave of me to run to Bethlehem his city, for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the clan.’ If he says, ‘Good!’ it will be well with your servant, but if he is angry, then know that harm is determined by him. Therefore deal kindly with your servant, for you have brought your servant into a covenant of the LORD with you. But if there is guilt in me, kill me yourself, for why should you bring me to your father?” And Jonathan said, “Far be it from you! If I knew that it was determined by my father that harm should come to you, would I not tell you?” Then David said to Jonathan, “Who will tell me if your father answers you roughly?” And Jonathan said to David, “Come, let us go out into the field.” So they both went out into the field. (1 Samuel 20:1-11 ESV) Jonathan was caught off guard. His father had promised no harm would come to David, but had tried to kill him and have him killed. When David came to him and asked him why, as his friend, he did not "have his back", Jonathan took him aside and had a frank conversation. That is what true fellowship is like: we are able to be real with one another when we are hurt or offended, and we are not hurt or offended when the other is "real" with us. We stop bitterness, misunderstandings and bad reactions. We remember that we are comrades in Christ; we are not the enemy. May we be thick-skinned and tender hearted as we deal with one another, so that nothing will pull us apart.

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